Life Changing Testimony
Free in Worship & Free from Burdens -
I have been a Christian for over 50 years and through all those years I have stumbled in the wilderness just like the Israelis did for forty years to get to the promised land. I accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior at an early age, but all my life, I knew something was missing and hungered for it. I have hungered all these years until the day my wife, son and I attended a Life Changers service on invitation from a couple who attends there. As soon as the service started, I saw and felt the freedom of worship, which I knew what I had been missing. When you came to the pulpit and began to praise Jesus for who He is, you made a statement, cast all of your cares on Jesus for He cares for you. At that very time all the burdens and weights that had been on my heart lifted and I have not been the same since, nor will I ever allow burdens to plague me again!
The Essential Ingredients of a Godly Home
Matthew 10:11-13 says, “Now whatever city or town you enter, inquire who in it
is worthy, and stay there till you go out. And when you go into a household,
greet it. If the household is worthy, let your peace come upon it. But if it is
not worthy, let your peace return to you.” This is how God blesses homes.
Your house needs to be a house worthy of the blessing of God. So I want to give
you Five Essentials to a Godly Home.
1. You need prayer in that home. In Luke 19:46 Jesus says, “My house will be a
house of prayer.” Teach your children that God will answer their prayers. If
God’s house is a house of prayer, yours should be one too.
2. Speak the Word in that home. Deuteronomy 6:6-9 says, “These commandments that
I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk
about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie
down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on
your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.”
3. Make it a house of humility. James 4:6. God can bless humility. He resists
4. Make it a house of giving. Malachi 3:10 says, “Bring ye all the tithes into
the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith,
saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour
you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.”
5. You need leadership in your house. Joshua 24:15 says, “As for me and my house
we will serve the Lord.” Take a stand, and have leadership in that home.
The Four Stages of Raising Children
As you train your children in the way they should go, it’s important to
understand The Four Stages of Growth in Your Children so they will grow up to
hear God’s voice and make right decisions
1.Discipline Stage 0-5 years
CREATE CLEAR AND VERY STRICT BOUNDARIES – no choices; you’re teaching them to
yield their will to your will so they will eventually be able to yield to God’s
WHEN YOU’RE SPEAKING TO THEM EXPECT A RESPONSE – otherwise you’re teaching them
not to have regard for your commands. Your children will rise to the level of
your expectation. One of the reasons God chose Abraham was because “he will
command his children,” Genesis 18:19 says.
MAKE YOUR INSTRUCTION CLEAR – Colossians 3:21 says don’t exasperate your
children. Warn them that the command is coming. “In 5 minutes, I’m going to call
you and I want you to be finished…”
2. Training stage 6-12 years
This is where you are training your children to be young adults. They are
pretending to be in that role. Give them some grace. Give them more choices. For
example, “Here are 3 choices, but remember when you make a decision, you’re not
going to change it.”
Teach them to make their bed and clean their room. Now let them do it. Check it.
Show them where they need to improve.
3. Coaching stage 13-19 years
During this stage, you let them be the quarterback of their life. You’re the
coach, but you let them play. You’re not driving them. They drive. You coach.
You call some plays, but let them call some.
When they make a decision, you ask “So what did you decide?” Then you say, “let
me give you some pros and cons about that…” You still give them your advice.
4. Fellowship stage (friendship)
You’ve done your job. You give advice only when they ask for it. You can’t try
to be their friend during the Discipline and Training stages. This is the time
you can be their friend, when you’ve done your job correctly in the earlier
stages. It’s tragic if we don’t honor the Discipline stage. It affects the rest
of their life and yours too.
Now that you have these practical stages of how to teach your children as they
mature, remember what sets it all up is when your house has the 5 Essentials for
the Blessing of God. God will bless and honor you as you honor Him and put Him
first in your home.
Other Suggested Teachings: Marriage and Family Series; What to do when you’re
under attack 02-10-02 (relates to family-more of a critical emergency type of